Should You Date a Girl Who Comes from Poverty?
If you make 6 figs, you don’t get dirty with trailer trash. Have some self-respect and aim for girls that have a similar drive and class as you. Girls who come from poverty will only see you as their ticket to a better life.
That means you’ll never be able to trust them. And if you can’t trust a woman, you’re in for a world of pain and stress. Your life is likely stressful enough. Don’t bother making it worse when this easy to follow rule could save you pallets of Tylenol.
The problem here is your perception of time. When you see some hot piece of white trash, you think that you should be the better person. That you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover. But then 3 months into the relationship, you find out that she’s slept with half her backwater town, been to rehab for meth and has no credit and thousands in debt.
Suddenly judging a book by its cover is making a lot of sense.
Signs that She’s White Trash
Excessive tattoos. Often these tattoos are basically doodles from a cheap tattoo artist who used the girl as a sketch pad. Probably not the only way he used her. Avoid.
Too much exposed skin. Peasant mindset from living in poverty is believing that getting male attention from cleavage is advantageous. Avoid.
Chainsmoker. If she’s constantly smoking cigarettes, she’s not wife material and she lacks self-control. These girls will waste $6 a day on cigs but struggle to pay their bills. Avoid.
The teeth don’t lie. When all else fails, check the teeth. Between poor dental care and smoking, the teeth may be in rough shape.
Girls with excessive piercings and tattoos are often signaling signs they are BPD and low value
Let’s say you end up marrying this girl because she rocks your world in bed and she’s got a heart of gold, or whatever bullshit you tell your friends.
What happens when you take her to the PTA meetings or the country club? You’ll find as you get older, you’ll care a lot less about how she looks, and more about how she carries herself. If she doesn’t speak intelligently, she’ll embarrass you. If she lacks social etiquette, you’ll be judged for it. Lot of good being the better man did you.
You want someone who you can be proud of, and this typically means someone who came from the same income level as you. That way, you’re not going to be embarrassed when she can’t pronounce Filet Mignon or understand why her kids shouldn’t walk around in just a diaper.
People tend to bring you down to their level. They call this phenomenon “Crabs in a Bucket.” As in, the crabs trying to get out of the bucket, will get pulled back down to the bottom by the crabs beneath them. The same thing happens with people.
You’ll quickly find out that women like this are constantly creating their own problems, letting the problem fester by avoiding it, and then crying help to some poor sucker. You’ll be stuck dealing with her shit. And because you’ve been conditioned to believe a good man saves a woman, you’ll devote your precious time and money to fixing these issues.
Her car was making weird noises? Why bother getting it checked out since she’s too poor to pay for it. She’ll drive it til it breaks down and cost 10 times as much.
She can’t afford to pay for her phone bill? Why bother dealing with this issue or spending less on cigarettes or drugs. Let’s wait til it’s late and their is a $75 activation fee on top of the bill.
Her friends will see you as a mark. They’ll ask to borrow money and never pay you back. They’ll steal from you because you have more than them. They’ll bum smokes and beers. They are society’s leaches and since you’re with her, now they’re with you.
These people will make your life harder. Don’t feel sorry for her. You can’t fix stupid.
You may think you can bring her out of the trailer, but her bad spending habits, debt and poor life decisions are more likely to drag you back to the trailer with her. Avoid at all costs! You are not the exception to the rule.
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